Today more men and women are beginning to complain that after sex feel overwhelmed and frustrated. It is not that all the financial crisis saps and flu - has always been, but was taken to keep silent.
After sex, instead of euphoria and joy I feel emptiness and sadness.
Real Stories
"After sex, instead of euphoria and joy I feel emptiness and sadness. And it's not that I am dissatisfied with the way sex took place, or those with whom it happened. Orgasm can be enchanting, but since it can be rolled forward to me a sense of hopelessness "- is divided into 27-year-old Irina, located in the search for a permanent men.
On these sensations says Catherine, three years of staying in a happy marriage. She admits that after sex with her beloved husband often feels lethargic and depressed: "Once we are divorced from each other, my mood drops to zero and can stay there for a few days."
Lack of logic
From sex we are waiting for the relaxation and happiness. Indeed he is and is programmed, because in the process of making love hormones of happiness, and there is complete muscle relaxation. And this is only from the standpoint of physiology. And there are psycho-emotional component: during sex, we feel that incredibly close and candid with another man, who also was called to meet us. So what's the matter? Why, after such a powerful antidepressant classes advancing emotional torment? The answer lies not in psychology, as it may seem at first glance, but in physiology.
Modernity at anything
Nature saved the surprise for us. Sexologists already nicknamed him poscoital blues ( «grief after close"). But this is not an invention of our time - posleorgazmennye anxiety and sadness has plagued the ancient Greeks. Proof of this can serve as a statement of the ancient physician Galen: "After intercourse all animals are sad except roosters and women." Perhaps the Greek was not a great connoisseur of the fair sex, just do not take into account their mental torment.
Mysteries of Nature
Compare this with a hangover can be after a hectic and incredibly fun party.
The fact that orgasm is a strong positive changes in the body, but after the climax has passed, the body is forced to return to its normal state. And in contrast to the euphoria, just tested, the rate begins to seem inadequate.
At the chemical level
During orgasm activated brain regions involved in the development of dopamine. This is a hormone released when receiving pleasure, for example, he actively carried out at a time when we feel in love. Such a conclusion was a biologist Gert Holstege. Also during orgasm is significantly reduced activity of the amygdala, which is responsible for the feeling of fear. Plus, at the moment of highest pleasure markedly increased the pain threshold. According to some reports, mild stimulation of the G-spot is able to reduce sensitivity to pain almost half.
And after a storm of happiness and joy subside, increased activity of the amygdala, responsible for fear, we find ourselves face to face with progressive concern. Compare this with a hangover can be after a hectic and incredibly fun party.
Case head
So do not worry if after sex you suddenly feel upset. It's not that you chose not to and that he did not do so, but only in your physiology. Just some people carry "hormonal" storm safely, and some - painfully. And if you belong to the second category, do not rush to complain about girlfriends or doctors. Just wait, when your precious brain reconstructed from one state to another.
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